Faith-based Human Services
Once Dr. Bell gets through the introductory conversation, she focuses on talking about two types of women. Nice girls and confident women. Nice girls devalue themselves by trying to be everything they can for the benefit of others. They live life vicariously through the life of the man that she is trying to be with. Confident women are attractive because they provide the chase that compels the ego of a man. Nice girls are treated as doormats because men do not see the extra effort that they put forth but they categorize the action's of a nice woman as being desperate or easy. Confident women are not interested in showering a man because she is too consumed with building her own kingdom and warding the men off that are chasing her.